happiness is..

 بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

Persinggahan ini sebentar cuma. 

Ada tujuan, ada panduannya. 

Tersurat sedia buat tiap jiwa.

Rezeki ada di mana - mana.

Maka, pungutlah. 

Destinasi itu di hujung sana. 

Kalah menang itu lumrah.

Hati itu ingin pulang ke taman-Nya. 

Bawa fitrahmu bersama.

Maka, bersegeralah. 

Berlumba mencari chenta-Nya. 

Genggam rindu-Nya. 

Sakit? 

Apa bukti kau bilang kau chenta andai tidak diuji sebegini rupa?

Kerna tiada makna apa yang ada andai chenta-Nya tiada bersama.

'Be in the world as if you were a stranger or a traveller along the path.'

(HR Al Bukhari)

Ini, definisi bahagia dia.

harry potter?

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

Getting married is difficult these days. No wonder a lot of people opt out for the easier alternative.

Dumbledore was right.

"Dark and difficult times lie ahead. Soon we must all face the choice between what is right and what is easy." (Dumbledore in "Harry Potter and The Goblet of Fire")

there are times that what's right isn't always the easy one.

be noted?

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

dear self, be noted.

One of the hardest decisions you'll ever face in life is choosing whether to try harder or to walk away. 

Tough times don't last, tough people do.

If your heart is with Allah, nobody could break it. 

Nobody.

silence is my loudest cry.

walk on_

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

when you walk through the storm 

hold your head up high

and don't be afraid of the dark 

at the end of the storm

it's a golden sky

and a sweet silver song of the lark

walk on through the wind

walk on through the rain

hold your dreams be tossed, and blow

walk on, walk on

and you'll never walk alone

you'll never walk alone.

Doa tanpa usaha itu bohong. Usaha tanpa doa itu sombong.

hit me one more time!

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

Just try one more time, in a different way.

happiness is only real if it is shared.

She couldn't help but wish she didn't care so much about those who don't care so much.

sleeping with a broken heart?

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

whenever you feel wronged, take a step back. 

ask yourself why would you feel that way.

dear, that's our ego answering. 

you see, a bad day for ego is a great day for the soul. 

Sleeping is nice.
You forget about everything even just for a little while.

give your heart a break. 

don't you go sleeping with a broken heart. 

best of the best!

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

The best love is when you find someone who makes your Imaan rise, who makes you more pious and who helps you here in the dunya because that person wants to meet you again in Jannah.

chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.

yeah, holding back is a fight indeed. 
a personal jihad inside. 
faith, is what it takes. and patience, is a real test. 

If someone wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so, isn't it? 

bitter not.

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

IT'S A PROCESS.

IT'S A PROCESS.

IT'S A PROCESS. 

Change takes time. 

sometimes we have to repeat the line over & over again until it registers.

-From time to time, it's good, rather essential, to see if you are still leaning against the right wall.-

till then_

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

hopefully the hate subsides and the love can begin

It might start now,

Well maybe I’m just dreaming out loud

Until then.

Come home

Come home

Cause I’ve been waiting for you

For so long

For so long

Right now there's a war between the vanities

But all I see is you and me

The fight for you is all I’ve ever known

Ever known

So come home

-i hope you always find a reason to smile.-

go get it!

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

The shortest distance between a problem and a successful solution is the distance between your head and the floor (sujood).

The one who bows down to Allah can stand up to anything.

if she's strong with hers, be stronger with yours then.

-if you want something, go get it. period.-

sometimes_

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

People are like stars,

although some of them might not be with us anymore , 

we surely can still see their light shining.

Sometimes you have to just swallow your pride and accept that you’re wrong. It’s not called giving up, it’s called growing up.

-The way to love anything is to realize that it may be lost.-

just let go!

-بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

stop holding on to something that doesn't exist anymore.

just let go. 


if one day you are to choose between a two thin line options, 
choose the one that will bring you closer to Allah. 
even if it means to walk away. 

this could be the final hour,

or this could be the finest hour. 

Allah. 

Allah. 

Allah.

-Everyone’s at war with different things. We are at war with our own hearts sometimes.-

get through it!

بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

don't wanna try to follow other's paths. 

your own will lead you to exactly the way you need to go. 


“He who loses money loses much, He who loses a friend loses much more, and He who loses faith loses all.”

people change for two reasons:

1. they have learned a lot,

2. they have been hurt too much

may someday someone will see you right through your walls. 

-a lesson will repeat itself until learned.-

beauty within_

بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

Some souls just take a longer journey to end up with the one they always belonged with.

Broken things can become blessed things
if you let God do the mending.

-this life scatters us to the point that only Allah can join.-

yes, there is!

 بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

there's a difference between like and love.
if you like a flower, you will pick it but if you love a flower, you will water it everyday. 
so does giving up and letting go. 
giving up is leaving that which was rightfully yours. letting go is forgetting what was never yours.

Understand the difference, a lot of things will inshaaAllah start to make sense in life.

-Improvement starts with I.-

apparently!

 بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم


Don’t marry a man unless you would be proud to have a son exactly like him & Don’t marry a woman unless you would be proud to have a daughter exactly like her.

-Don't go for the better one, go for the one who helps make you a better person.-

-Educating a man is educating an individual, educating a woman is educating an entire generation.-

long gone and moved on?

 بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

Sometimes,

when the world's not on your side

You don't know where to run to

You don't know where to hide.

You gaze, at the stars in the sky

At the mountains so high

Through the tears in your eyes.

Looking for a reason,

to replace what is gone.

just remember, Allah will always be there.

Don't grieve at the shattering. Allah breaks you, to build you. Deprives you, to give you. This pain in your heart was created to make you yearn less for this life. And to yearn more for Jannah. 

-when your words couldn't build, don't let them kill.-

Paano ba mag move on?

1. Umiyak ka – Iiyak mo lang, hindi masama umiyak, pag sobrang sama na ng loob mo, minsan masarap umiyak, kahit lalaki ka pa umiyak ka lang, nakakagaan yun ng pakiramdam. Syempre sa tagong lugar ka umiyak or sa mga friends mo. Minsan masarap pag may humahagod sa likod mo habang umiiyak ka.
2. Magdasal ka – Humingi ka ng strenght kay Bosing para kayanin lahat ng pagdadalamhati mo. Without the help of God we can do nothing sabi nila. Thank him kahit sa heartaches pasalamatan mo sya, tapos mag sumbong ka sa kanya, lahat ng nararamdaman mo sabihin mo sa kanya. Magugulat ka nalang dahil pag katapos mo mag pray ang gaan na ng pakiramdam mo.
3. Libangin mo sarili mo – Meaning wag kang mag focus sa kakaisip sa heartache mo, kasi the more na iniisip mo lalo ka lang mahihirapan.
4. Develop new skills or learn new skill – Focus mo nalang ang atensyon mo sa ibang bagay, tulad ng pag aaral ng bagong skill, pwede ka ding mag blog, matuto mag drive, mag aral kang mag luto kung di ka marunong.. that way makakalimutan mo na yun misery mo may bago ka pang natutunan.
5. STAY AWAY FROM HIM/HER – Lahat ng memories nya itapon mo na kung gusto mo mag move on, kasi the more na nakikita mo mo mga gamit nya, maalala mo pa din sya, pati number nya burahin mo na sa phone mo, para hindi kana ma tempt na i text sya. Basta kung gusto mo maka move on dapat lahat ng bagay na nakakapag paalala sa kanya iwasan mo na.
6. Free will – Sarili mo lang ang makakatulong sayo. Dapat kung gusto mo kalimutan ang isang tao, meron kang sapat na kakayanan na gawin yun. Dapat talagang gusto mo. Kasi kahit sundin mo lahat ng sinasabi ko kung hindi ka pa ready, di ka talaga makakamove on. Lahat may rason, kaya dapat may rason ka din bakit mo gusto gawin ito.
7. Love yourself – Para masabi mo sa sarili mo na karapat dapat kang mahalin, mahalin mo muna sarili mo. Paano ka mamahalin ng tao kung sarili mo ayaw mo? Love yourself ika nga , magpaganda/ magpagwapo ka. Improve yourself. Tapos ngumiti ka.. yan ang pinaka murang pangpaganda/pangpagwapo. 

-nobody can drive you crazy unless you give them the keys.-

"..and worldly life deluded you.." 
[Al- Jathiyah: 35]

The person who really loves you, is the person who tells you something
that will bring you closer to Allah. 

Closer to Allah.


-time heals what reason cannot.-

not an option, you know.

 بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

If you can't find good company that will bring you closer to Allah; at least stay away from bad company that will take you away from Him. 

-i may be a choice, a decision or a destiny but never an option.- 

The feeling is priceless.
This is awakening.

i'm sorry?

 بِسْــــــــــــــــــمِ ﷲِالرَّحْمَنِ اارَّحِيم

A good apology has three parts:

1. I am sorry,
2. It is my fault,
3. What can I do to make it right...

But most people miss the third part - If you want to say sorry, mean it and do something to make it right.

dear hearts which sometimes filled with sorrow,

believe in a better tomorrow.

The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to forget is the happiest.

-a resentful heart can never really truly care.-